What does it take to create a life that you truly love ?
I’m not sure what brought you here today, maybe things are not too good for you at the moment and you are looking to make a real change that last.
Or May be things are amazing and you want to take your life to the next level, no matter what brought you here, I just want to let you know that you are here for a reason
Often times we’ve all experienced change for a moment, only to feel let down and disappointed in the end
For changes to be of any true value, they’ve got to be lasting, consistent and enjoyable
I have spent the last 10 years of my life figuring out what it really takes to create a lasting change and over the years I have learned a few things of what works and what doesn’t work
I wanted to make changes in my own life and I wanted the change to last, I wanted to create a meaningful life that makes me feel that I’m living the life I was born to live and make a difference in the world that I was created to make.
I’m very proud of the result I have been able to create in my own life today and in this post is a chance for me to share a few of those key lessons that I have learned
I’m certain with every sense of certainty in me that, no matter what change you want to create in your life right now, you have the innate power within you to make it happen.
You are one unique special creature powerful enough to create the changes you desire and deserve
I don’t pretend to have all the answers, I still make mistakes, I have down days too like everyone else but I do want to let you know that you are born with unlimited power to create real lasting change not only for yourself but also to help others create thiers too.
I know there are lot of injustices in the world and there are some circumstances in life which we can’t explain yet or do anything about at the moment
but I want us to focus large amount of our energy on things we can do something about and less energy on things we can’t do anything about
I mean haven’t we heard of people who have all the advantages in life, background advantage, environment, lots of money, education and family support but couldn’t be able to live a happy and fulfilling life
We have also heard or read about people who have every disadvantages you can think of , no money, no education , no family support – but some how they find a way to create a life that inspires us beyond human imagination
So no matter the challenge we go through in life, we can always figure out a way to come out of it if we are determined
May be its your health, your Marriage or your finance, your careers or even your business that’s not so awesome at the moment? get excited because its time to create your greatest breakthrough
Here is what I mean, when some areas of your life is not working so well and you are aware enough to take proactive measures to resolve it and to find lasting solution that’s the moment you create your greatest breakthrough
Some form of unhappiness and dissatisfaction is actually good because it means progress is about to happen, dissatisfaction is the first necessity for progress
Many people attempt change with a sense of fear and panic because unconsciously they believe the change will only be temporary, I’d like to share with you three fundamental strategies of change that you and I could use immediately to create lasting change in our lives.
Though these strategies are simple, they are also extremely powerful when they are skillfully applied
As long as you follow these strategies in this post, as long as you stay connected to your intuition, keep your heart open, willing to learn and make a real lasting change, you’ll succeed, you’ll win!
Simple Smart Strategies To Create Real Lasting Change in Your Life Immediately
Know what you want
Everyone I know who succeed had to start with getting clear on knowing exactly what they wanted.
In other to make any real lasting change in your life the first thing you must do is to have a clear vision of where you want to go, know exactly what you want.
In any situation in life that you want to create a change, you have to decide what you want, as you are reading this post right now what do you want?
The more clear you are on what you absolutely want, the more you empower your brain to come up with answers, you must get focused on what you want
When I wanted to make a change in my own life I decided what I wanted, physically, financially, spiritually and in my business, I wrote down all the things I want in my life and all the things that I aspired to becoming.
Once I knew what I wanted I empowered my brain to come up with answers and providence moved in, I began to receive ideas, inspirations and strategies on how to achieve my desired outcome
The more you are sincerely clear about what is it that you really want to achieve, where you want to go, what you want to create or what you truly want to experience in your life the faster and easier for you to make it happen
Any time you sincerely want to create any change in any area of your life it begins with the simple step of knowing exactly what you want, clarity is power
Knowing the specific result you want is a powerful thing, you must decide what you want now, clearly and specifically
Would you like to have more joy in your marriage? have more money? or do you want to transform your body?
What Do You Really Want?
What do you want from your relationship? what do you want from your business? what do you want from your life?
It doesn’t matter what it is that you want, but you need to be crystal clear on the result that you want to create or the life you want to experience
All progress begins with a brave decision, which means you have to decide now what you really want, believe it and you will achieve it.
How can you use this step one strategy to create a real lasting change and make a difference that you were born to make in this world
I believe when you know exactly what you want, when you get focused on what you really want, you have empowered your brain to get result immediately
Once you know exactly what you want, next is to know why you want it, reasons come first and answers come second
When you have big enough reason to what you want, you’ve empowered your brain to go for it faster.
Take Massive Action-
Stay Fully Committed
Massive focused action and perseverance—is the magic behind any great success throughout history, without consistent focused action, you’ll never have the ability to create lasting change in your life
There is a very big difference between making a wish, sitting around and hoping things turns out good and knowing exactly what you want, taking massive action to achieve your desired result
It doesn’t matter what you’ll like to create or achieve, massive Action is central to making any real and lasting change in your live.
Make the decision right now to get yourself to take action and move toward the achievement of the result you want to create in your life
Most of us get stocked because we don’t know where to start, There is no way you’re going to get what you want by sitting around and hoping someday things will be fine, once you know what you want, next is to take massive action
The biggest trap that keeps people from taking action to create real lasting change or moving ahead is their fear, fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of the unknown, fear of pain and fear of criticism.
Don’t let your fear stop you, the only way to deal with fear is to face it, fear isn’t all bad, it make us to pay attention, get yourself to take action regardless of your fears
You see, in life, lots of people know what to do, but few people actually do what they know. knowing is not enough! you must take action
knowing something intellectually is very different from living and experiencing something consistently , they say practice makes perfect but I say to you, practice makes progress.
Do not let the fact that you don’t know what actions to take stop you, don’t be afraid, fear not, if you don’t know where or how to start, just start from somewhere, when you start – where there is no way, a way will be made!
Change Your Approach
Do you know, most successful people in life failed more than they have succeeded and that’s why they are successful?
You see- there is no guarantees that once you know what you want, take massive action and stay committed that your action will always work
Don’t cage yourself, you have to be smart enough to set yourself up to win, be flexible, be creative and resourceful to know whether your actions are bringing you closer to your goal or not
If your actions are working, great! If not change your approach, change your strategy, instead of feeling like a failure change your approach
The biggest failure in life is sit and not try anything at all because of fear, if you try something and it doesn’t work try something else, keep changing your approach and strategies until you succeed
There is a way to speed up these strategies instead of taking random actions, the best way in almost any case is to find a role model, someone who’s already getting the results you want, and then tap into their wealth of knowledge.
Learn what they’re doing and do the same thing, if you plant the same seed you will reap the same result, if you do the same thing you will get the same outcome
If you’ve come this far in this post, you know without a doubt my central message: you have the power right now to decide what real lasting change you want to create in your life.
Take massive action to achieve your goal and keep changing your approach until you succeed.
Perhaps for the first time you are empowered to create real lasting change that you desire and deserve and also help other people change their lives too
Though you walk through fire, keep going for your dreams, nothing can stop you from smiling – Osinachi Achu